Do You Ever Feel Like a Fake? [Podcast #5]

I hate that horrible feeling I have when I am hiding something. I despise the tension in my spirit when I know I'm not living in integrity. Thank God I don't have to live that way! Having a peaceful, clear conscience is definitely one of the keys to being happy.

Podcast episode 5 continues the series on How to be Happy. If you have any questions or thoughts about this episode, please leave a comment on this post. You can also email me at matthew@truthtofreedom.org.

Facing That One Thing You Hope God Doesn't Ask You to Do [Podcast #3]

This podcast is the first in a series called How to Be Happy. Through the series you will be guided through a sequence of steps to help you process all the desires and fears in your heart and understand how to find deep and lasting happiness in Jesus.

Here is the first step: make a list of answers to the following questions:

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As we create our lists, we will ask ourselves if we trust God's plan for our lives. And we will face that one (or two or five) things we hope God won't ask us to do.

Workaholic for Christ

“Workaholic” is a bad word in the church. This is because we are often so consumed with our work that we neglect God and family. Work becomes god. This is no good, of course.

However, we must strive for balance (as usual). Significant parts of our culture have now replaced the god of work with the god of entertainment and leisure. I have written here about the warning from Prov 12:11: Avoid Worthless Pursuits.           

We see a very high value placed on work in the Bible. Just look at the Proverbs. Paul also consistently discussed work in his letters. In 2 Thess 3:6-15, Paul warned the believers to stay away from brothers who are idle. He then reminded them of his example:

“We were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone’s bread without paying for it, but with toil and labor we worked night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you” (2 Thess 3:7-8).

Paul sounds like a workaholic to me. But here is the important part: He was not leaving out God and ministry to people. In fact, he spoke the same way in reference to his ministry. “For three years I did not cease night or day to admonish everyone with tears” (Acts 20:31). Paul was a workaholic for Christ.

Do you work hard to provide for yourself and others?
Do you work hard in serving the Lord? What is your ministry?
Do you have too much focus on entertainment and leisure?

You might be wondering: I’m already worn out! How can I do more?

Here are two ideas for later discussion:

1)    A healthy life includes rest and renewal. Are you resting? Is your non-work time renewing or depleting your energy?

2)    We do not work with our own strength for the Lord!

“For this (proclaiming Christ) I toil, struggling with ALL HIS ENERGY that he powerfully works within me” Col 1:28.

The Secret to Powerful Prayer [Podcast #2]

Sometimes prayer seems mysterious. When will God answer our prayers? What do we make of his promises to answer prayer (John 14:13-14; 15:7-11)? How can we learn to pray his will? If it is his will, why do we have to pray it?

Episode 2 of the Truth to Freedom Podcast is a recording of my teaching at Highland Christian Fellowship on Eph 6:19-20; Col 4:3-4. In these verses, Paul gives his prayer request to the Ephesians, a prayer for communicating the gospel. Not only do we learn what to pray, but we have the opportunity to dig into these challenging questions about prayer.

1. If we ask him, God will provide opportunities to communicate the gospel (Col 4:3).

2. If we ask him, God will help us to communicate the gospel with boldness (Eph 6:19-20).

3. If we ask him, God will help us to know what to say when we communicate the gospel (Eph 6:19; Col 4:4).

Are You Right with God?

What to Do:

  • Get alone and uninterrupted.
  • Determine to get right with God.
  • Draw near to him in faith and humility (Heb 10:19-22; James 4:7-9).
  • Ask God to show you how to get right with him.
  • Write down every sin he brings to your mind.
  • Ask him again and wait.
  • Write down every sin he brings to your mind.
  • Do it again.
  • Go through your list and confess, repent, and ask for cleansing by the blood of Christ for each sin individually.
  • Ask God in faith to deliver you from bondage and take back any territory in your life you have given to the enemy.
  • Mark out each item, unless it involves another person.
  • If it involves another person, determine to ask for forgiveness.
  • As you ask each person for forgiveness, then mark it off (even if they don’t forgive you).
  • Walk on in truth, light, joy, freedom, and full of the Spirit!
  • Take time to confess your sins and get right EVERY DAY.
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Questions to Consider:

  • Have you been closer to the Lord than you are now? When? Why?
  • How close to God do you want to be? Will you?
  • Are all parts of your life surrendered to Jesus?
  • What sins do you need to confess?
  • Do you have anger or bitterness? Who do you need to forgive?
  • What actions, motives, attitudes, and thoughts are not pleasing to the Lord?
  • Are you in bondage to sin? Are you controlled by fear, lies, negative thoughts, food, sexual immorality?
  • What does God want you to do that you are not doing?
  • Have you sinned against your spouse?
  • Will you repent? How?
  • Do you have accountability? Discipleship?
  • Do you have accountability and mentorship for your marriage?